This has implications for immigrants who didn't grow up in this culture. Standards and values from the
Last Friday the Dutch cabinet decided to tighten the integration and education criteria for foreign marriage partners. In doing so the government wants to stem the flow of so-called "import brides or grooms", especially those who are at risk of finding themselves in a dependent and isolated position in the Netherlands. It also wants to discourage marriages of convenience, forced marriages and marriages between first cousins. This is done from a social perspective, but also to prevent fraud, crime and polygamy.
There is a long list of problems related to immigrants who desperately cling to the culture of their country of origin. It includes not just arranged marriages, but also teenagers being left behind in the country of origin at the end of the summer vacation - a particularly cruel act.
On the face of it the cabinet's policy on import brides is a good example of normative clarity, which clearly states what is important to Dutch society. But between norms and reality there are many practical objections and acquired cultural rights. For this reason we should always be on guard whenever the government wants to intervene in people's private lives.
Who we share our lives with or want to marry is an individual choice. The motives for doing so are by definition not a matter for the state. Historically speaking, arranged marriages, whether based on calculation, necessity or opportunism, are no exception to this rule. Social standing and religion have always played a role in marriage, not to mention security or prosperity.
For this reason it is dangerous to try to stem immigration by imposing standards that belong to family law. Every citizen has the right to a family life, as determined by the European Convention on Human Rights. Who he wants to share that